{"id":313,"date":"2024-03-03T11:44:05","date_gmt":"2024-03-03T11:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/?p=313"},"modified":"2024-03-03T11:58:38","modified_gmt":"2024-03-03T11:58:38","slug":"everyone-loves-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/2024\/03\/03\/everyone-loves-me\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cEveryone loves me\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>By DR. AK RANA<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Humans are those social beings who want everyone to like them so that they can proudly say, \u201cEveryone loves me!\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They maintain a reputation in front of people and those people then guide what they do because opinion matters because everyone needs to love them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being in spotlight and shining brightly is dream of many and this journey never ends. But running towards that golden spotlight, they often forget the right way and keep dragging themselves in dark pit which keeps getting deeper and deeper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There was a guy in my college who wanted to be everybody\u2019s favorite. He used to act just the way you would want him to act, your favorites were his favorites; be it the dish, show, movie, music, whatever you just name it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His way of talking was so sweet that you would be mesmerized by the words he would speak. In our batch, he was the most famous person that everybody in the college knew of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to be envious of his cool dude vibes, and never-ending narcissistic talks that were never proved wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>His show-off was not only materialistic but being the good guy was also part of it, and for that he was always ready to help people around him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can guess what was coming next, a few people started using him; and given his reputation he wouldn\u2019t say no. When and how he was slowly turning into pushover, he didn\u2019t realize that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tides were going against him and he tried harder to change its direction in despair.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>More famous you are, more will you find people who know how to take you down. Never think that you are the only clever one over here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A group of students did a mischief resulting in angry teachers, ready to take action with keen eyes searching for \u2018The head\u2019 of the group. Whole batch wanted a \u2018Head\u2019 to take the blame and everyone looked at \u2018the famous guy\u2019 for help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As if it was his responsibility and his hesitancy was taken as disloyalty, even though he was not at all involved in the incident.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When he was standing up with a brisk smile on his face unable to go against his pricy reputation, he looked at me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I was like why are you looking at me with those eyes of helplessness, don\u2019t you know I live across the stage without revealing my presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe he was for the first time envious of person like me whom nobody knows.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhat? You want any suggestion.\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He just smiled awkwardly, unable to shout for help in front of hundreds of eyes on him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We were not close but his roll number was just a few digits away from me, and because of his dozen of helps, I also had a soft corner in my heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cDon\u2019t go\u2026 Are you nuts? Why will you take the blame for those idiots?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, I had nothing to lose and could say whatever in my heart ,but they were stunned to see me shouting like that, many never heard my voice before!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cI see\u2026\u201d that\u2019s why you looked at me because it doesn\u2019t matter to me what the hell, they will think about me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThanks for your help. But they are going to hate me from now on.\u201d He sighed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cLet them who cares.\u201d I replied, \u201clet them hate you.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIs that possible? What if everybody hates me?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cLet it be then.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cHow will I survive?\u201d he laughed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cYou will just need oxygen for that.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That day whole batch decided to apologize, with no one being the head of the group. I gained unnecessary attention, while the famous guy stood next to me as if for the first time, he relaxed in the shadow doing nothing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He told me he was envious of me, but nevertheless he knew that people like him keeps the world going. I would stand there observing people and following the one taking the lead and that was easy to do. While the one who shines take all the burden on their shoulders.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After that he used to follow me around, giving me extra burden of his spotlight that he carried everywhere. Although he was more at ease than he was before.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He started to follow his own nature and was no more dependent on others opinion to shine. He didn\u2019t need everybody\u2019s liking for him to maintain a reputation and yes, he could straightforwardly say \u201cNo!\u201d to people without any more hesitations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That day all I did was to speak some lines and it was all the people he had earned, who stood up with him and that\u2019s how whole class decided to take the blame.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-819x1024.png\" alt=\"everyone loves me\n\nby Halleys clinic\" class=\"wp-image-314\" srcset=\"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-819x1024.png 819w, https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-240x300.png 240w, https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-768x961.png 768w, https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image-600x751.png 600w, https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/image.png 940w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Always remember that not everyone will like you, there will always be a bunch of people who would never be happy with you. What to do then?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do nothing, never amend your ways or morals for them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Never change who you are to fit in the tiny spotlight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although opinion matters, but your life can not be decided by others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While trying to \u2018be the favorite\u2019 never let go your identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t let your \u2018so called reputation\u2019 to become the chain to cage you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201cYou are liked by many,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp; but not by all,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;&amp; that\u2019s totally alright\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color has-background\">SHARE YOUR REVIEWS AND STORIES OR ASK QUESTONS IN THE COMMENT SECTION, OR<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-luminous-vivid-amber-background-color has-background\">CONTACT OUR TEAM OF HALLEYS CLINIC halleysclinic@gmail.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>also read <a href=\"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/07\/why-will-you-regret-now\/\" title=\"\u201cWhy will you regret now?\u201d\">\u201cWhy will you regret now?\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>also read <a href=\"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/2023\/11\/28\/end-is-also-the-start-of-a-beginning\/\" title=\"\u2018END IS ALSO THE START OF A BEGINNING\u2019\">\u2018END IS ALSO THE START OF A BEGINNING\u2019<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Humans are those social beings who want everyone to like them so that they can&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":316,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[26,202],"class_list":["post-313","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-how-to-take-care-how-to-take-care","tag-halleys-clinic","tag-quotes"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=313"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":315,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/313\/revisions\/315"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/316"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/halleysclinic.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}